Sep
28
As A Counsellor, I Am Fortunate (?) To Experience A Varied Gamut Of Human Relationships Through The Cases That Come To Me For Therapy.one Such Case Was That Of A Young Adolescent Boy, Who Was Referred To Me For Academics, As Well As Behavioural Issues. On Meeting The Boy, He Seemed Compliant Enough For The Questions And Answered Them Willingly, But I Could Sense Intense Rage Within Him. On Probing, I Found That His Primary Anger Was Directed Against His Mother. Reason? She Insults Him In Front Of His Uncle And The Servant! The Mother Looked Surprised That This Was A Topic Of Dissent With The Boy. Her Logic Was That If He Is Scolded In Front Of Someone Else, Then He Would Learn To Behave Better. When I Asked Her What Her Expectations Were She Had Only One Thing To Say: I Want Him To Respect Elders.i Found Her Need To Be Very Amusing… Considering She Was Using Humiliation As A Tool To Discipline Her Son.everybody Has This Need In Them To Be Respected, Whether Young Or Old. How Could The Mother Expect The Child To Develop A Sense Of Respect And Reverence, When Everytime She Would Deride And Belittle Him Not Only In The Privacy Of Their Home But Also In Public? It Is, According To Me, The Lowest Form Of Disciplining Tactics, Which Would Have The Person At The Receiving End Seething Inside With Humiliation. I Remember, When I Was Working In A Publication Firm, We Would Have This Monthly Meetings, Which Were Called “hall Of Shame”. The Names Of All Those Editors Who Had Not Met Their Targets Would Be Written On The Board, And They Would Be Asked For Detailed Feedbacks And Explanations. This Could Also Be Done In The Cabins Of The Senior Professionals, But I Think They All Got A Perverse Pleasure, Seeing Them Squirm In Front Of An Audience. What Irreparable Damage Was Being Done To The Psyche Of The Person, I Dread To Think. A Personal Memo Calling The Person Filthy Names Is So Much Better Than This Public Flogging. Coming Back To The Case, When I Started Handling The Issues With The Mother, I Could Understand Where She Was Coming From. She Was A Perfectionist, And Theirs Was The Most Passive Marriage I Have Ever Seen! When Asked If She Expected Others To Respect Her As A Person And Her Opinions, She Wanted To Know What I Was Talking About! For The Husband, She Was Just A Wife; One Who Took Care Of His Physical And Biological Needs. He Could Not Describe The Person That She Was: Her Identity Was That She Was His Wife. She Was Labelled A Bad Mother Because Her Son Did Not Behave ‘properly’. So To Get Social Approval She Was Being Punitive With The Son. Her Life Revolved On Social Approvals. She Could No Longer Establish Her Own Identity, And Establishing The Importance Of Being Herself Became The Focus Of Counselling. She Was Gradually Able To Understand That You Do Not Demand Respect; You Command It. And You Can Only Teach How To Respect If You Practise It. The Point Took A While To Sink In; But When She Was Able To Withdraw From The Controlling Relationship, And Also Refused To Take Responsibility For Her Son’s Misbehaviour, And Refuse To Accept The Label Of Being A ‘bad Mother’ Simply Because He Misbehaved, Things Started Turning Around. When People Around Realised That She Was Not Accepting The Blame For His Behaviour, They Started Handling The Boy Differently; And He Too, In Subsequent Sessions Was Able To Understand The Scenario. Sessions Are Still On; The Husband Continues To Be Passive, Though He Is Beginning To Think There Is More To A Marriage Than Just Staying Together, And Is Slowly Willing To Enrich The Relationship.it Is Not ‘all Is Well’ As Yet…. But I Hope It Would Be.mohana Narayanan
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Apr
16
Multicare Adavnced Homoeopathy Treatment (maht) In Kidney Failure Chronic Kidney Failure Or Chronic Renal Failure (crf) Or Chronic Kidney Disease (ckd) The Different Name In One Disorder, The Kidney Failure Is A Fatal Disease Where The Body’s Waste Products Which Should Be Expelled Out From Our Body In The Form Of Urine Through Our Both Kidneys Cannot Be Excreted Out Due To Nonfunctioning Of Kidneys And That Leads To Multi Organ Failure. The Major Causes Of Chronic Kidney Failures Are Diabetes Mellitus (also Called Diabetic Nephropathy), Hypertension, Sle (lupus Nephropathy), Poly Cystic Kidneys, Renal Carcinoma (cancer). The Extension And Severity Of Damage In Kidney Tissues Can Be Evaluated Through Glomerulus Filtration Rate (gfr). Normal Kidney Function – Gfr Above 90ml/min/1.73m2 And No Proteinuria The Severity Of Chronic Kidney Disease (ckd) Is Described By Five Stages; 1) Ckd1 – Gfr Above 90ml/min/1.73m2 With Evidence Of Kidney Damage 2) Ckd2 (mild) – Gfr Of 60 To 89 Ml/min/1.73m2 With Evidence Of Kidney Damage 3) Ckd3 (moderate) – Gfr Of 30 To 59 Ml/min/1.73m2 4) Ckd4 (severe) – Gfr Of 15 To 29 Ml/min/1.73m2 5) Ckd5 Kidney Failure - Gfr Less Than 15 Ml/min/1.73m2 Some People Add Ckd5d For Those Stage 5 Patients Requiring Dialysis; Many Patients In Ckd5 Are Not Yet On Dialysis Common Treatment Procedure There Are Three Procedures In Modern Medicine For Such Condition. 1. Symptomatic Medicines With Some Specific Medicines To Control The Causative Disease Such As Diabetes Mellitus, Hypertension, Etc And Diuretics To Reduce The Oedematic Conditions. 2. Dialysis (haemodialysis Or Peritoneal Dialysis Depending On The Doctors Decision) 3. Kidney Transplantation Those Are Not The Curative Treatment Procedure For Kidney Failure Palliative Treatment Tries To Keeps A Person Alive By Performing The Crucial Functions Of The Kidneys By Dialysis Or Kidney Transplantation. But Homeopathic Treatment Stimulates Someone's Immune System To Perform Normal Functions - This Way Damaged Kidneys Start Functioning Normally (depends Upon The Stage Of The Disease) Which Type Of Kidney Patients Should Take Homeopathic Treatment? 1. Healthy Persons Who Have Strong Family History Of Renal Failure Should Take Multicare Advanced Homeopathic Treatment (maht) To Avoid The Risk Of Renal Failure. 2. Diabetic Patients Who Are Suffering From Hypertension Also Must Take Multicare Advanced Homeopathic Treatment (maht). 3. Persons Who Are Having Symptoms Of Early Renal Failure Of Unknown Etiology Must Start The Multicare Advanced Homeopathic Treatment (maht). 4. Patients Suffering From Recurrent Renal Stone Formation Or Having Stone Lodged Somewhere In The Ureter Must Start Maht. 5. Kidney Patients Of Any Stage Should Start Maht As Earliest As Possible For Avoiding Passing Into The Complete Renal Damage. 6. Patients Who Are Taking Some Urine Forming Medicines Such As Lasix, Dytor Etc. Should Start Maht Otherwise Their Kidneys Will Have To Suffer Badly. 7. Patients Who Are On Dialysis Can Get Rid Off The Frequent Dialysis By Taking Multicare Advanced Homeopathic Treatment (maht) 8. Patients Who Are Waiting For Renal Transplantation Should Start Maht Which Can Stop The Urgent Need Of Kidney Donor. It's Mean To Say That Nothing Is Too Late For Maht To Start; Every Patient Should Start It As Soon As They Come To Know About Benefits Of Maht. The Maht Improvement Percentage In Crf Stage Wise Stage- Ckd1 Gfr Level - Above 90ml/min/1.73m2 Percentage Of Improvement In Maht - 100% Approximate Visible Improvement Period By Mhat - Within 1month Stage- Ckd2 Gfr Level - 30 To 59 Ml/min/1.73m Percentage Of Improvement In Maht - 100% Approximate Visible Improvement Period By Mhat - Within 1month Stage- Ckd3 Gfr Level - 60 To 89 Ml/min/1.73m2 Percentage Of Improvement In Maht - 70% To 80% Approximate Visible Improvement Period By Mhat - Within 2 Month Stage- Ckd4 Gfr Level - 15 To 29 Ml/min/1.73m2 Percentage Of Improvement In Maht - 50% To 60% Approximate Visible Improvement Period By Mhat - Within 4 Month Stage- Ckd5 Gfr Level - Less Than 15 Ml/min/1.73m2 Percentage Of Improvement In Maht - 50% To 60% Approximate Visible Improvement Period By Mhat - Within 4 Month The Present Treatment Verses Homeopathy Treatment In Crf 1. Duration Of Treatment: Lifelong Treatment In Present Conventional System Of Treatment. Homeopathic Medicines Can Be Stopped In 2 To 5 Years Depending On The Severity And Underlying Cause Of The Disease. 2. Chance Of Revive Of Kidney: Damaged Kidneys Cannot Be Repaired In Present Conventional System Of Treatment. Modern Medicine Try To Facilitate The Bodily Waste Products To Pass Out By The Process Of Dialysis Through Artificial Or By Transplanted Natural Kidney And Simultaneously By Doing Forced Diuresis With The Diuretic Medicines That Eventually Lead To More Damage To The Remaining Nephrons (renal Cells). Though Homeopathy Does Not Provide Any Substitute (dialysis Or New Kidney) For Any Organ (kidney) But It Can Revive The Damaged Organ As It Has Been Proved At Many Times In Our Multicare Advanced Homeopathic Treatment (maht). 3. Dialysis Verses Homeopathy: There Is No Curative Procedure For Crf In Present Conventional System Of Treatment. Kidney Transplantation And Dialysis Does Not Cure Renal Failure, But Instead Keeps A Person Alive For Few Months To Years By Performing The Crucial Functions Of The Kidneys. The Process Of Dialysis Cannot Be Stopped Once A Patient Starts On It. As The Time Passes This Procedure Has To Done More Frequently. Even Doctors Cannot Imagine That It Can Be Slow Down (gap In Dialysis Can Be Increased) So They (doctors) Compel Their Patient To Come For Dialysis More Frequently. As Long As The Patient Is Performing Dialysis Can Live Few Months To Years (just To Live, Not In A Completely Healthy Condition) But If Stop Then No Chance To Survive. But Homeopathy Stimulates Someone's Immune System To Perform Normal Functions, In This Way Damaged Kidneys And Other Organ's Functions Start Improving .patient's Kidneys May Start Improving As Soon As He Starts Taking Homeopathic Treatment. It Helps The Patient Withdrawing From Dialysis. That's Why Homeopath Advises His Patient To Increase Gap In The Subsequent Dialysis. 4. Treatment Cost Factor: In Allopathic System Patient Has To Spend Rs.5000 To 20000/- Per Month Exclusively On Medicines. Expanses Of Hospital's Fee And Investigations Are Superfluous. Homeopathic Treatment Cost Depends On The Severity Of Disease And Knowledge And Experience Of The Doctor, Even A Costliest Doctor's Treatment Remains Quite Economical Than Allopathic Expenses. 5. Kidney Transplant Complication: In Case Of Kidney Transplanted Patients Kidney's Linked Diseases Like Diabetes Mellitus And Hypertension May Become Uncontrolled Instead Of Taking Full Medical Care. But Multicare Advanced Homeopathic Treatment (maht) Not Only Repairs The Damaged Kidneys But Simultaneously It Helps In Maintaining The Blood Sugar Level And Blood Pressure To A Normal Level. 6. Treatment Concept: In Present Conventional System Of Treatment Damage Is A Continuous Process, It Can Be Slow Down Up To A Certain Limit But Cannot Be Stopped. In Multicare Advanced Homeopathic Treatment (maht) Can Stop The Further Damage Of Diseased Organ Without Delay And Further Treatment May Revive The Damaged Tissue. 7. Scope Of Treatment In Polycystic Kidney: In The Similar Way Present Conventional System Of Treatment Can Not Treat (correct) The Cysts Or Tumors Of Kidneys. Our Multicare Advanced Homeopathic Treatment (maht) Can Treat The Tumors As Well As Polycystic Kidneys Also. 8. Symptomatic Verses Curative Treatment: Doctors And Patient Always Remain Worried About The Bio-chemistry (sodium, Potassium, Calcium, Phosphorus, Etc.) Otherwise Some Complications May Likely To Occur. Even With Taking Care Of All The Measures Patient Starts Complaining Of Symptoms Related To Electrolyte Imbalance Almost Every Day. In Multicare Advanced Homeopathic Treatment (maht) Once Patient's Immunity Improves (you Can Feel It Just Within Days) All Organs' Functions Will Start Improving Simultaneously Bio-chemistry Also Becomes Normal Naturally. For Detail Contact At Call At – 91-9937412150 Visit: Www.multicarehomeopathy.com
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Jun
23
Salute To Indian Army & Itbp Jawan's Who Have Resuced And Are Still Doing Their Job At Risk Of Their Life To Save Our People Stucked In Biggest Disater Of Flood And Hurricaine In Uttrakhand Ad Himachal Pradesh Leading To Death Of Thosand And More And Injuries Of Thosands ,loss Of Property Of Crores And Many Oor Ancient Temples At Kedarnath Badrinath ,joshi Math ,gouri Kund Etc. Are Damaged .few Collected Pictures Are Sent Please Like It ,send Your Condolence To Affected Families & Tribute To Our Beloved "vir Bahadur Sainik"
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