As A Counsellor, I Am Fortunate (?) To Experience A Varied Gamut Of Human Relationships Through The Cases That Come To Me For Therapy.one Such Case Was That Of A Young Adolescent Boy, Who Was Referred To Me For Academics, As Well As Behavioural Issues. On Meeting The Boy, He Seemed Compliant Enough For The Questions And Answered Them Willingly, But I Could Sense Intense Rage Within Him. On Probing, I Found That His Primary Anger Was Directed Against His Mother. Reason? She Insults Him In Front Of His Uncle And The Servant! The Mother Looked Surprised That This Was A Topic Of Dissent With The Boy. Her Logic Was That If He Is Scolded In Front Of Someone Else, Then He Would Learn To Behave Better. When I Asked Her What Her Expectations Were She Had Only One Thing To Say: I Want Him To Respect Elders.i Found Her Need To Be Very Amusing… Considering She Was Using Humiliation As A Tool To Discipline Her Son.everybody Has This Need In Them To Be Respected, Whether Young Or Old. How Could The Mother Expect The Child To Develop A Sense Of Respect And Reverence, When Everytime She Would Deride And Belittle Him Not Only In The Privacy Of Their Home But Also In Public? It Is, According To Me, The Lowest Form Of Disciplining Tactics, Which Would Have The Person At The Receiving End Seething Inside With Humiliation. I Remember, When I Was Working In A Publication Firm, We Would Have This Monthly Meetings, Which Were Called “hall Of Shame”. The Names Of All Those Editors Who Had Not Met Their Targets Would Be Written On The Board, And They Would Be Asked For Detailed Feedbacks And Explanations. This Could Also Be Done In The Cabins Of The Senior Professionals, But I Think They All Got A Perverse Pleasure, Seeing Them Squirm In Front Of An Audience. What Irreparable Damage Was Being Done To The Psyche Of The Person, I Dread To Think. A Personal Memo Calling The Person Filthy Names Is So Much Better Than This Public Flogging. Coming Back To The Case, When I Started Handling The Issues With The Mother, I Could Understand Where She Was Coming From. She Was A Perfectionist, And Theirs Was The Most Passive Marriage I Have Ever Seen! When Asked If She Expected Others To Respect Her As A Person And Her Opinions, She Wanted To Know What I Was Talking About! For The Husband, She Was Just A Wife; One Who Took Care Of His Physical And Biological Needs. He Could Not Describe The Person That She Was: Her Identity Was That She Was His Wife. She Was Labelled A Bad Mother Because Her Son Did Not Behave ‘properly’. So To Get Social Approval She Was Being Punitive With The Son. Her Life Revolved On Social Approvals. She Could No Longer Establish Her Own Identity, And Establishing The Importance Of Being Herself Became The Focus Of Counselling. She Was Gradually Able To Understand That You Do Not Demand Respect; You Command It. And You Can Only Teach How To Respect If You Practise It. The Point Took A While To Sink In; But When She Was Able To Withdraw From The Controlling Relationship, And Also Refused To Take Responsibility For Her Son’s Misbehaviour, And Refuse To Accept The Label Of Being A ‘bad Mother’ Simply Because He Misbehaved, Things Started Turning Around. When People Around Realised That She Was Not Accepting The Blame For His Behaviour, They Started Handling The Boy Differently; And He Too, In Subsequent Sessions Was Able To Understand The Scenario. Sessions Are Still On; The Husband Continues To Be Passive, Though He Is Beginning To Think There Is More To A Marriage Than Just Staying Together, And Is Slowly Willing To Enrich The Relationship.it Is Not ‘all Is Well’ As Yet…. But I Hope It Would Be.mohana Narayanan

Why Am I Feeling So Anxious About Everything? Many People Have This Thought Once In A While. Anxiety Is A Protective Phenomenon Fitted In The Brains Of People By Nature. Yes Buoyant Individuals Without Any Anxiety Whatsoever About Anything Rarely Can Perform Well In Life. This Statement Can Be A Great Reliever For Neurotic People Feeling Anxious About Anxiety Per Say! Hypochondriacal People Always Have Heightened Susceptibility To Stimuli That Lead To Excess Anxiety And Worry About The Apparently Casual Situations. In Such Cases, Anxiety Becomes Morbid At Times And Out Of Proportion To The External Circumstances. Also It May Last Long After The Threatening Situation Is Gone. This Kind Of Anxiety Needs Intervention And Good Psychological Counseling. Causative Factors Of Anxiety- (1) Psychological Illnesses Like Depression, Schizophrenia, Etc (2) Long Standing Illnesses (3) Certain Familial Traits And Genetic Contribution To Anxiety Cannot Be Denied (4) Unexpected Life Events With Poor Tolerance Level (5) Sometimes It May Be The Result Of Relatively Minor Day To Day Events (6) Some Physical Illnesses Like Hyperthyroidism, Hypoglycemia, Alcohol Withdrawal, Epilepsy, Pheochromocytoma, Arrhythmias, Etc Clinical Features Of Anxiety- (1) Fear Of Impending Disaster Is One Of The Chief Presenting Symptoms In Most Cases (2) Excessive Irritability (3) Restlessness With Fidgety Feeling All Over The Body (4) Tremors, Sweating, And Palpitations May Be There (5) Some Patients Complain Of Dizziness, Headache, Sudden Diarrheic Spells, Enhanced Frequency Of Urination, Etc (6) Breathlessness, Headache, Insomnia (typically During Initial Sleep), And Poor Concentration Are Observed Too (7) Severe Anxiety Can Result In Some Or The Other Physical (somatic) Illness Including Fever, Malaise, Dullness, Body Ache, Etc Some Peculiar Types Of Anxiety- There Are Many Types Of Anxiety; However, Mainly We Can Classify It Into Phobic Anxiety (phobia) And Panic Disorder. An Abnormal Fear Brought On By A Particular Object Or Situation Because Of Which The Person Avoids That Stimulus Is Termed As Phobia. Phobias Are Commoner In Women And Genetic Contribution Is Important To Consider. Scientists Have Attributed These Types Of Phobic Anxieties To Some Traumatic Event On The Childhood Of The Patient. This Boosts The Homeopathic Physician’s Concept Of Seeking Detailed Childhood History Of The Patient, In Which Lies The Answer To His Or Her Anxiety In Adulthood. Panic Disorder Is Sudden Onset Of Unpredictable And Severe Anxiety. They Usually Are Not Related To A Specific Situation And They Are Linked With Depressive Disorder. In This Variety, The Physical Symptoms Like Palpitations, Chest Pains Etc Are Prominent. The Patient Fears That He Is About To Die. Management Of Anxiety- Choice Of Treatment Goes A Long Way In Establishing The Normal Homeostasis In The Emotional Sphere Of Patient’s Life. Many People Deny That Anxiety Needs To Be Treated. But It Is Evident That Without Treatment, Sulking, Brooding, Irritability, And Excessive Worry Do Not Lessen But Aggravate To Take Graver Form. Therefore, Management Of Anxiety Is A Very Important Step Towards The Person’s Brighter Future. Psychological And Homeopathic Approach- Psychological Counseling Is The Most Important Pillar Of Anxiety Treatment. An Expert Psychologist Can Reassure The Patient And Can Inculcate In Him The Confidence That He Can Get Better. As Homeopathy Deals With Mind Effectively, A Homeopath Himself Is A Great Psychologist. Seeking Apt Data From The Patient Is An Art And Only That Homeopath Succeeds In Treating The Patient, Who Has In-depth Understanding Of The Patient’s Psyche. Therefore We Can Say That Psychological Counseling And Homeopathic Case Taking And Analysis Go Hand In Hand. They Cannot Be Separated. Even For Psychosomatic Anxiety, Importance Of Counseling Cannot Be Underestimated. Specific Relaxation Techniques Help A Great Deal In Patients Of Anxiety. Specific Yoga Techniques, Pranayam, And Homeopathy Together Can Work Marvelously Well In These Patients. Anxiety Is A Disorder In Which Conventionalists Have Very Limited Role. If You Do Not Want To Fall Prey To Heavy Doses Of Anti-depressants That May Leave You Dizzy All Day Long, Seek An Expert Counselor Homeopath That Can Help You Find The Best Equilibrium In Your Physical, Mental, And Emotional Realms. Talking To A Homeopath Is A Great Way To Find The Best Emotional Catharsis For Sure!

Spirit Release Therapy,hypnotherapist In Coimbatore Earthbound Spirits, Negative Thought Forms, Dark Energies And, Upon Occasion, Demonic Energies Can Attach Themselves To Humans At Times When They Are Vulnerable Or Suffering From Trauma Or Negative Emotions. At The End Of A Life That Has Ended With Shock, Confusion Or Unresolved Issues, Be They Positive: Not Wanting To Leave A Loved One Or Negative: A Desire To Get Revenge, The Soul Energy Of A Person Does Not Travel Into The Light. As A Result They Can Be Stuck On The Earth Plane And, At A Loss For Where Else To Go, Will Be Attracted To A Person Displaying Similar Energy. The Emotions And Feelings Connected With A Sudden, Traumatic Death Can Become The Force Which Attaches A Spirit To The Earth Plane. Anger, Fear, Jealousy, Resentment, Guilt, Distress, Even Strong Ties Of Love, Can Interfere With The Universal Transition Into The Light. If A Person Dies By Drug Overdose, The Newly Deceased Spirit May Attach To Someone Who Uses Drugs Or Alcohol In Order To Maintain The Sensations Of The Habit. Sometimes At Death A Spirit Or Soul Is Confused Or Simply Out Of Fear Does Not Return To Where It Belongs. We Have A Choice Even At The Moment Of Our Death. We're Free To Return Home To The Light Or Remain On Earth And Rove Around. If We Are A Victim Of Murder, We May Also Have A Choice To Attach Ourself To The Person Who Took Our Life And Cause Them Trouble In Their Life. Many Spirits Remain On The Earth Plane Because Of A Lack Of Awareness Of Their Own Death. Confusion, Distrust And Disbelief Concerning Religion And Spirituality Can Prevent The Spirit From Moving Into The Light. A Person Subjected To This Experience May Just Report Hearing Voices Yet Have No Other Psychotic Symptom Or Behaviour. A Newly Formed Attachment May Be Evidenced By The Sudden Onset Of Drug Or Alcohol Usage, Unusual And Inappropriate Expression And Behaviour Patterns, Or Noticeable Personality Changes Following Surgery, Accident, Emotional Upset, Suicide Of A Family Member, Even Moving Into A New Home. As The Result Of An Attachment, Or Possession, Physical Appetites For Food, Sex, Alcohol, And Drugs Can Increase Greatly. Personal Attitudes And Beliefs Can Suddenly Change, As Can Personal Tastes. The Voice And Even Facial Features And Appearance Can Alter Dramatically. An Earthbound Spirit Retains The Psychic Energy Pattern Of Its Own Thinking, And Can Transmit To It`s Victim Any Mental Abnormality Or Emotional Disturbance, As Well As Any Symptom Of Physical Illness. This Condition Can Be Extremely Confusing And Frightening For A Person, And For Friends And Family. Attachment To Any Given Person May Be Completely Unplanned, Even Accidental. An Attachment Can Be Benevolent In Nature, Self Serving To Fulfil A Personal Need Of The Spirit, Harmful In Intention, Or Completely Neutral. It Can Occur Simply Because Of Physical Proximity To A Dying Person At The Time Of The Death. The Connection May Be Established By The Purposeful Choice Of Either The Spirit Or The Living Human, Because Of A Strong Emotional Bond Between Them. A Person Can Be Vulnerable And Open To Attachment Due To Any Mental Or Physical Symptom Or Condition, Strong Emotion, Repressed Negative Feeling, Conscious Or Unconscious Want Or Need. This Vulnerability Can Act Like A Magnet To Attract A Foreign Entity With The Same Or Similar Emotion, Condition, Need Or Feeling. Severe Stress May Cause Susceptibility To The Influence Of An Intrusive Spirit. Alteration Of The Consciousness With The Use Of Alcohol Or Drugs, Especially Mind Drugs, Opens The Unconscious Mind To Invasion By Discarnate Beings. The Same Can Be True For The Use Of Anaesthetic Drugs For Surgery. Spirit Release Therapy Uses Hypnosis To Open Up A Safe Communication With Any Energies That Do Not Belong With A Person And A Therapeutic Discussion Ensues, Allowing The Energy To Be Gently Returned To The Light. Even Dark Energies Contain Light And These Too Can Be Dealt With With Compassion And Love. Spirit Releasement Is A Therapy, Not A Rite. Unlike Exorcism, It Comes From A Position Of Compassion, Not Confrontation. It Aims Both To Free The Client And To Assist The Attached Spirit To Continue Its Evolutionary Journey. Past Life Therapy Is Often Usefully Combined With Spirit Releasement Therapy.