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STRESS BUSTER CONSTRUCTIVE BOMB: DR. SHRINIWAS KASHALIKAR
STRESS BUSTER CONSTRUCTIVE BOMB: DR. SHRINIWAS KASHALIKAR

We know that atom bomb, hydrogen bomb etc are extremely destructive. Their production involves unjustifiably counterproductive expenditure that deprives billions; of their basic needs. Even if these bombs are not used in wars; their mere presence causes suspicion, fear psychosis and war mongering!

But there is one “bomb” that is not destructive but constructive! It does not cost money to produce! It is beneficial to all and harmful to none.

Doesn’t it appear strange?
How can be a bomb; constructive and free of destructive effect?

Doesn’t this bomb really destroy anything?

In fact; yes! We have to admit that it does destroy something!

It destroys darkness. It destroys subjectivity and pettiness. It destroys ignorance. It destroys doubts and confusion. It destroys despondency. It destroys bigotry and hatred. It destroys malice and mania. It destroys apathy. It destroys disruptive forces. It destroys dividing barriers! It destroys deprivation and destitution!

But; that is how it is universal, perennial and constructive stress buster! That is how it is constructive in individual and global blossoming! It never gets used up and can not be inactivated! It can be and has been used repeatedly with (not just same; but) increasing benefit; by billons; through generations and for millennia.

Which is this stress-buster constructive bomb? Of course; it is NAMASMARAN! Practice of NAMASMARAN and asserting one’s conscience in accordance with the inner voice (practice of SWADHARMA) is the universal and infallible way of Total Stress Management!

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NAMASMARAN SKEPTICISM CYNICISM AND SARCASM: DR. SHRINIWAS KASHALIKAR
NAMASMARAN SKEPTICISM CYNICISM AND SARCASM:
DR. SHRINIWAS KASHALIKAR

There are broadly four stages of our development; which takes us to perfection, self realization, objective existence, eternal truth, sacchidananda, ishwar, paramatma or parmaeshwar.

Traditionally these stages are identified as baddha, mumukshu, sadhak and Siddha.

Baddha means completely oblivious to one’s true self and totally lost in one’s subjective or petty self. One can say, totally individualistic.

Mumukshu means one who gets; vague haunting “wake up” calls or promptings from within; and produce restlessness. The search of the “self” though, without direction or clarity begins. There are doubts, distractions, disturbances and overall frantic activity like that of a person who has just begun to learn swimming.

Sadhak stage begins when the mumukshu gets the guidance and direction for the search. The efforts get rectified and refined. The pace, the swiftness and the momentum increase. The progress however is full of subtle, conflicting, confusing, harrowing, dreadful spells of ordeals in physical, instinctual, emotional and intellectual realms of an individual. These are often destabilizing, uprooting and violent in nature. These ordeals destroy all kind of subjective frameworks of an individual and bring him closer to the true self i.e. objective state of existence.

Siddha is a stage; marked by the final and extremely subtle processes of dissolution of subjective or individual self into cosmic self; often not identifiable outwardly. The struggles in this stage are often beyond the comprehension through language of digits and letters. These stages are beyond the comprehension of individual consciousness and the three dimensions.

When we are in the first 3 stages of development we are tender and delicate within. We are amenable, accessible, vulnerable and susceptible to damaging and harmful influences and inflictions coming from within us; and from outside; i.e. from the people trapped in various phases of the stage of baddha.

Baddhas manifest in many ways. But; possibly the most dangerous manifestations are the powerful inflictions such as the skepticism, cynicism and sarcasm!

Skepticism, cynicism and sarcasm are denigrating, disorienting, distracting, distorting, disorganizing and devastating. They cause our downfall from being gracefully oriented to our true self; to the pitiable state of dementia or VISMARANA of our true self; and thus; suck us in the ghastly hell of VINASHA!

Hence it is said that; to prevent VINASHA; avoid those, who forget, deny or denounce God i.e. true self and/or malign their motherland, guru, mother and father! Such avoidance (physical, mental or intellectual); is possible; through the unshakable steadfastness and persistence in the practice of NAMASMARAN.

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LOVING CHILDREN: DR. SHRINIWAS KASHALIKAR
LOVING CHILDREN: DR. SHRINIWAS KASHALIKAR

How to rear our children appropriately so that we all are happy while ensuring maximum blossoming of our children to the best of our; and their potentials; and satisfaction?

Depending on the mental makeup; and several other factors; such as cultural, geographic, political and other circumstances; upbringing options vary in details.

In general; we are in the dilemma of; “Whether to pamper the children and leave them to their fate"; or "force them coercively to study and enter the rat race of amassing money and power"? The conflict is perennial and in every household; because of the uncertainty of the merits and demerits; or advantages and disadvantages.

The dilemma gets resolved; if we do not; throttle our children “in our whims and fancies” on the one hand; and “their whims and fancies” on the other!

This subtle balance between discipline or restrictions and pampering or freedom; is achieved through the practice of NAMASMARAN that imparts inner strength, security and harmony; to rise above whims and fancies of us; and our children.

We as (future or present) parents, teachers, counselors, or friends, philosophers and guides; have a golden opportunity to share this most PRECIOUS GIFT (NAMASMARAN) with the children world over. This would ensure maximum blossoming of all of us; to the best of our potentials and satisfaction.

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STRESS AND JUSTICE: DR. SHRINIWAS KASHALIKAR
STRESS AND JUSTICE: DR. SHRINIWAS KASHALIKAR

We experience stress; when we cannot come to terms with a situation, which appears from the media reports; to be injustice.

If we accept it as a wish of God and not allow ourselves to be disturbed; then actually there is stress of accepting surrender and remaining inert and impotent.

Alternatively; if we were to reject and revolt against the “unjust” situation, then we get stressed; because; we have no clear and objective comprehension of the situation and no convincing road map to establish full proof justice.

What is true about situations is also true about individuals.

We are under stress; when we try to forgive someone; even when we are not convinced. In fact; through; such arbitrary (and unjust?) forgiveness we experience stress of being coaxed to be unduly sympathetic, sentimental and gullible. We get stress of being helplessness and pitiable!

Alternatively; we are stressed; even if we contemplate or try to take revenge in a vindictive manner. This is because we don’t have unprejudiced and objective assessment and evaluation; of the crime or mistake; of that individual and don’t have the knowledge of appropriate and just punishment or prayashchitta; to bring him/her to justice.

NAMASMARAN enables and empowers us; to see the underlying active divine reality.

Through NAMASMARAN; we overcome; our casual and superficial perception of the situation and don’t accept or reject it. Instead; we keep focused on the underlying divine reality, and gratefully welcome its verdict (which is always just); while wholeheartedly discharging our duties.

In the same vein; through NAMASMARAN; we are no more “gullibly and sentimentally forgiving” or “vindictively punishing”; any individual. Instead; we are happily witnessing “the divine operations” underlying and discharging our duties!

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SUPERSTITION: DR SHRINIWAS KASHALIKAR
SUPERSTITION: DR SHRINIWAS KASHALIKAR

We do hundreds of activities daily; without any element of belief or disbelief. We do them inevitably as an inseparable part of our life. We never even have any doubt about whether they are right or wrong; and scientific or unscientific.

Thus we are unquestioningly (blindly) involved in the biological compulsions such as breathing, eating, sleeping; sex. We are unquestioningly (blindly) involved in social needs such as marriage, celebrations, sports, and entertainment and so on. We are unquestioningly (blindly) involved in our pursuits of pleasures (and multiplying pleasures) through our business, power politics, performing arts, sports and so on.

In short; we never question the scientific veracity; of a thing; when it comes to gratifying our senses of taste, smell, hearing, vision, and touch and so on.

This is because; there is no moment to moment need of rationalism. It is not possible also to use rationalism at every moment and in every activity. As said earlier; our metabolic, endocrine, autonomic and even cerebral activities go on; without the help of rationality.

Superstition is a state of being deficient in perspective, thinking, emotions and instincts. It is a state of being fossilized in pettiness. A superstitious person requires all-round nourishment and empowerment to rise above superstition. There are many traditional practices including NAMASMARAN, which help in this.

Rationality has a certain role to play; and it does so; during education; in overcoming superstitions . But for every superstition; it cannot be an antidote. Insistence of rationality in every walk of life; is unrealistic and devoid of the comprehension of human nature.

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