We have used the word Sadguru to differentiate it from the modern usage of the word guru; implying expertise or mastery in a particular field such as management.
Sadguru is also called Mauli or Mother. Sadguru is like mother; but mother who is immortal and cosmic!
Our mother may or may not teach us; different arts and skills; and may or may not give us; money, fame and power.
But she gives us; birth and enables and empowers us; to sustain life! She enables and empowers us to learn everything we aspire to learn and/or; to earn!
Quite similarly; Sadguru may or may not; teach us the various techniques and crafts! He may or may not; teach us biology or computers. He may or may not; provide us with wealth, popularity and social weightage!
But Sadguru; enlivens us; to the life of life! He reorients us; to our immortal true self! He reinstates us; in our own abode! He enlightens us; to �see� the �hidden� unity and harmony; in the universe! He nurtures us; from the deepest root; of our being! He enkindles us from within!
Sadguru gives; objectivity to our existence and rectifies our vision, ideas, aims, objectives, pursuits and activities! Everything in our life; becomes increasingly unprejudiced, impartial, unbiased, accurate, appropriate and deeply satisfying!
How does Sadguru give all this?
He gives this through and in the form of NAMA that we recite and/or remember. Here; the NAMA does not connote just a name of a God, a saint; a prophet; or a mere concept of god for an atheist); though initially it appears that way!
Actually; it is the ultimate reality, the center of our being, the innermost seed of our existence; the source of omnipotence, omniscience and omnipresence; i.e. Sadguru Himself; and this becomes evident as we keep on practicing NAMASMARAN (jap, jaap, jikra, sumiran, simaran, that is; remembering our true self)!

Gurukrupa is eternal connection with super consciousness or immortality. It enters our life; in the form of practice of NAMASMARAN. As the practice progresses; our vision, perspective, thinking, feelings, motivation, mission and actions evolve; and become rectified, purified and objectively benevolent. Moreover, they become stronger, effective and victorious.

In addition; as our practice of NAMASMARAN progresses, we get inspired, empowered and enabled to spread the global benevolence of NAMASMARAN (JAAP, JIKRA, SUMIRAN, SIMARAN, i.e. remembering our true self); on war footing. Our life is not only fulfilled; but enters the realm of immortality.

गुरुक्रुपेने साध्य होणार्या नामस्मरणाने सद्दृष्टी, सद्बुद्धी, सद्भावना, सद्वासना, सद्सन्कल्प आणि सद्क्रिया विकसित होतात. प्रबळ होतात. प्रभावी होतात. यशस्वी होतात. तसेच; नामस्मरण करण्याबरोबरच; त्याचा आणि त्याचे कल्याणकारी महत्व; यांचा; सार्वत्रिक प्रसार युद्ध पातळीवर करण्याची प्रेरणा, बुद्धी आणि क्षमता प्राप्त होते; आणि जीवन संजीवन बनते.

SUCCESS, FAILURE AND GLORY: DR SHRINIWAS KASHALIKAR

The examples of �success�, �failure� and �glory of failure� in Total Stress Management can be described as follows.
The first step of success is; recognizing the stress of mortal life; amidst the �volcanic eruption� of unidentifiable metabolic, hormonal, autonomic and central nervous events. It is said that this is in continuation to the history of the past lives.
This very recognition is simultaneously; painful, igniting and motivating. It triggers an impulsive, selfless and ill defined expedition of stress management.
Thus we may fail to be selfish, careerist and rich; if assessed with materialistic yardsticks! Even our simple requirements may not be fulfilled. Moreover; as we are preoccupied in the expedition of understanding the challenge of stress i.e. injustice, sorrow and maladies of life; we may fail to be indifferent; and �enjoy� the celebrations and festivities. This may isolate us from our family, friends; and also; the society!
But in this failure lies the glory of being more loyal to our conscience and hence nearer to our true self.
The second step to success; is; getting the holistic solutions.
But this is not at all easy. It is inevitably associated with internal devastating turmoil and hence failure to be involved; to one�s own satisfaction; in piecemeal solutions and sectarian curriculums (if we are academics); and irrelevant, useless and/or counterproductive day to day work and traditions!
But as a result of this failure; we can make glorious contributions in evolving holistic perspective, policies, plans and programs and their implementation.
The third step to success is; crystallizing and applying i.e. treading the path of Total Stress Management and articulating and sharing the details of the sojourn; with others.
This is often associated with failure to match the popular demands of entertainment and failure in commercial and financial gains.
But the glory of this failure; is in; going successfully through the ordeal of being true to our core. This truthfulness sharpens our perceptions and frees us; from commercial preoccupations; and multiplies the accuracy, potentials and scope of our solutions. This accuracy averts; �being bloated with pride� and precludes �being trapped in� deceptive, hollow and vain glamour, glitter and temptations.
The fourth step to success is in happily accepting the result; as the solutions have their own scope and limitations; even though accepting �not so glamorous result� is difficult.
But even if we succeed in this; it is usually associated with the failure to be overconfident and aggressive; when compared with the aggressive and imposing sectarian forces. This leaves us with �painful guilt� of being passive and defeatist and ineffective!
But the glory of this failure is that; we are out of the rat race; and thus; the subjective, inaccurate and dictatorial elements; within us; begin to decline.
We begin to appreciate the need of greater accuracy and objectivity! We begin to understand that even the attachment and commitment to �our� ideological perceptions and convictions can throttle our true freedom! We begin to appreciate the paramount role of NAMASMARAN in overcoming the subjectivity/ego.
The fifth step of success is; surrendering the endeavors, which we thought as �ours� to the �source� from where they spring!
This kind of surrender is really painful; like death. But even if we succeed in this; we usually fail to project ourselves with so called style and flamboyance. We fail to carry the facades of greatness and impose our leadership through self aggrandizement! This is as painful as stripping our bodies publicly! The stripping of ego; makes us feel empty and low.
But this failure has the glory of being free from; every burden and bondage! Being free of ego; is a unique experience of being naturally connected with others by a sublime bond of love.
The sixth step to the success; is the return to immortal source of the solutions and being immortal!!!
This is obviously not easy. But as we progress; we begin to get glimpses of immortality!
This leads to failure in being �proficient or brilliant� in the activities of mundane affairs!
The glory of this failure however; is �the steady but definite progress in; self realization or a globally benevolent state of reunion; with the immortal cosmic reality; NAMA, BRAHMA or SACCHIDANANDA i.e. SADGURU; through NAMASMARAN (jap, jaap, jikra, sumiran, simaran or remembering one�s true self); at the cost of otherwise worthless mortal life.

THE PURSUIT: DR SHRINIWAS KASHALIKAR

The pursuit of universalization of NAMASMARAN is actually; aiming at realization or manifestation; of already existing but unperceived unity and harmony in the world.
It is a pursuit towards inviting and including; everybody; in the joyous and melodious universal orchestra of individual and universal blossoming. It is a pursuit of manifesting; the mammoth potential embodied in NAMASMARAN; of superliving or holistic renaissance i.e. holistic perspective, holistic policy making, holistic planning, holistic programs and their universal implementation!
This target may appear to some; as utopian; as it may or may not ensure immediate results; in terms of; all the seven thousand millions individuals practicing NAMASMARAN; and/or understanding, accepting and internalizing this potential of NAMASMARAN!
But this pursuit even if unfulfilled; in itself; is rejuvenating and empowering. It unites us with the life in the universe! It connects us with the process of universal blossoming. We are no more isolated fragile individuals.
It reinforces and consolidates our own conviction (and in the course of time our own experience); in the practice of NAMASMARAN (jikra, jap, jaap, sumiran, simaran; i.e. remembering true self).
Thus; both; this pursuit (whether accomplished or not); and the practice of NAMASMARAN, are empowering and rejuvenating; and ensure; the moment to moment; victorious Total Stress Management! This is a way; as well as a heavenly destination; open to all; irrespective of their race, religion, region and theist or atheist ideologies.

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Intended Parents are the infertile couples who intend to have a child through the process of surrogacy.The individual or individuals who enter into a surrogacy agreement with surrogate mother with intent to become legal parent or legal parents of the child born to the surrogate are known as intended parents.

People of all sexualities [Gay, LGBT, Same Sex and straight]who want to have a child of their own but cannot conceive due to reasons out of their control become the intended parents in the process of surrogacy.Intended parents are either biological parents or need the help of egg donor,sperm donor and the surrogate mother.The parties to the agreement will be intended parent or intended parents,surrogate and the surrogate�s husband if any.

The community of intended parents is very big and come from all walks of life and every corner of the world.They may be infertile couples,single mom or dad or gay and lesbian couples.They all have one thing in common - a burning desire to become a parent or parents.It is very important for the Intended couple to select the right surrogate based on the review of complete medical records,checking family history, and social/criminal background and education level.It is also necessary to get a perfect psychological evaluation of the surrogate before selecting for surrogacy or Egg donation.Surrogacy or Egg donation is the best solution for infertility and other relative problems.

Intended parents are people who use conventional methods to have the children.Some intended parents opt for adoption or traditional surrogacy,while others choose gestational surrogacy. Gestational surrogacy has the advantage of offering intended parents the chance to have a child that is biologically related to one or both of them.All couples with infertility issues to single people to gay and lesbian couples can enjoy the parenthood with surrogacy.They all want to be parents and cannot do so without the help of a surrogate mother and/or egg and sperm donors.

Types of Intended Parents:

The parents that contract for a commercial surrogacy and bring the baby home,are actually referred to as intended parents in surrogate motherhood.There are three main types of intended parents: traditional couples,same-sex couples,and single intended parents.

Traditional Intended Parents: The term intended parents usually refers to a male/female couple who are the parents of the child conceived via commercial surrogacy.Most of the time,at least one of the parents is the biological parent of the child conceived,though quite commonly,both the intended mother and the intended father are the biological parents of the child.

Same sex couple: Intended Fathers called as gay couple has to sought help of a surrogate mother to help them have their own children.These men will either seek a traditional surrogate mother and use the sperm of one of the fathers,or will seek a gestational surrogate mother,and also an egg donor.Most likely,sperm of one father will be used,but in the case of a gestational surrogacy,it is not uncommon for intended fathers to use sperm from both partners.

Though uncommon,there are some circumstances where a set of homosexual intended mothers would seek a surrogate mother. The reason this is rare is that with two women,the chances of both experiencing fertility problems becomes rarer.

Single intended parents: Occasionally an unmarried man or woman will enter into commercial surrogacy.The reasons for an unmarried woman to seek a surrogate are usually the same as that of a male/female couple,but for the single male,he is most likely ready to start a family,and has not found the perfect partner.

It is very important for the Intended couple to select the right surrogate based on the review of complete medical records, checking family history, and social/criminal background and education level.It is also necessary to get a perfect psychological evaluation of the surrogate before selecting for surrogacy or Egg donation.Surrogacy or Egg donation is the best solution for infertility and other relative problems.

All Intended Parents must consider following 10 most important steps while entering into the Successful journey of surrogacy.

1] Intended Parenting: Determine beforehand whether surrogacy is right for you.Intended Parents opting for surrogacy must seriously consider all issues prior to making a decision to go ahead with a surrogacy arrangement.

2] Make all necessary inquiries for surrogacy agency,surrogate process,surrogate mothers,egg donors,egg donation,surrogacy cost and surrogacy law.Read the surrogacy contract agreement properly.Educate yourself thoroughly about surrogacy related questions.

3] Create a letter or profile about yourself.To help you find an ideal match,it is best to create a letter or profile about you and your partner.Describe your personal data,why you need surrogacy,surrogacy plans,time frames and any requirements you may have for your potential surrogate mother.

4] Screening of surrogate mothers and Surrogate Selection Process.This is the most important and challenging part of the whole surrogacy process.While choosing a surrogate one must consider the surrogates reproductive history, diet pattern, previous transfer,height,weight,Surrogate's support of the spouse and the family.Besides this entire surrogate has to go through extensive medical screening for any infections or diseases should be undertaken.Physiological screening as well as a thorough background check is also done.

5] Screening and Egg donors Selection Process before egg donation.Egg donor has to go through medical and physiological examination to evaluate their genetic history.Surrogates and egg donor are selected simultaneously.Egg donor profiles and photos are provided for selection.

6] Surrogacy Legal Agreements.A legal agreement is the most essential step in the whole process of surrogacy.Intended parents should comply with the legal aspects of surrogacy.Complete research should be done regarding laws pertaining to the intended parents� country and arrive at a customized legal agreement.Concerned parties should sign the surrogacy agreement.

7] Payments to surrogate mothers.Never send any payments prior to signing a Surrogacy Agreement.Do not send money to your surrogate mother before signing a surrogacy agreement.All payments should be reimbursed after a receipt has been made.Some surrogate mothers use retainer fees before attempts at pregnancy,be sure the retainer agreement complies with law and has been checked by your lawyer.

8] Cost involved in surrogacy.The surrogacy is very expensive.Intended parents must consider their financial position before deciding for surrogacy.It has been observed that surrogacy overseas is very cheaper rather than in western countries.Hence intended parents must keep this option also open.

9] Confirmation of pregnancy of surrogate mother.When the IVF process is completed and it is confirmed that surrogate is pregnant,Intended parents are curious to know the state of pregnancy of the surrogate.They should remain in touch with surrogates health,progress in pregnancy and with the fertility clinic.The birth of a baby is a joyful movement for any parents.Here intended parents have the option to be present during the delivery of their baby.

10] Post Birth Formalities.Once the baby is born through surrogacy,intended parents should starts legal formalities for taking the possession of baby. Educate yourself on the legal status of surrogacy in your province,state or country.Not being aware of current laws and taking shortcuts could result in jeopardizing your parental rights. One of the best way to make sure you are properly adhering to the laws and (often changing) regulations,is to hire a lawyer that specializes in third party reproduction or surrogacy consultant to help guide you through the surrogacy process.

At the end of the whole surrogacy process take a deep breath,remain patient and try to focus on the end result... your baby! Get ready to enjoy the parenthood.

Many people globally are now choosing India a destination for Surrogacy.Simple reasons like:Surrogacy Treatment is Economical In India,Best Of IVF Doctor Easy to find Surrogate Mother In India,Legal Aspect of Surrogacy as law are in favor of the Intended parents going for surrogacy treatment.

Hence Surrogacy or Egg donation is the best solution available to intended parents for infertility and other relative problems.Whether it is financial,legal,immigration,travel or medical issues that Intended Parents had to contend with; these issues are no longer going to keep anyone from their dream of beginning a family.

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